What do I do next? Part 2

[luvhurts49]

Wanted to add one more thing about my confrontation with my W regarding the OM over the weekend. After my little speech, my W accused me of having an anger problem and that I constantly argued with her and yelled at her and the kids.

Now I will admit that me and my W did argue more that normal before she left, but I think a lot of that was her. As far as yelling at her or the kids, no way. I would occasionally raise my voice in order to be heard over the noise, but not yell at them directly.

I do not believe that I have an anger problem. I have never even thought about hitting her, the kids, or anyone else during any kind of argument. I do not yell at her or the kids (see above) and I most certainly never call her or the kids names or berate them in any fashion.

I'm just wondering if these types of comments from my W are her way of deflecting or trying to make me feel bad when in reality it is her that has done our M wrong by having an A with OM. Thoughts or comments please.