Gunny,

Checking in...that was some poem you posted above. Sad and sobering.

I hope you don't hang your hat on any "warmth" you might want to perceive from your W, because from what I've experienced in the last 3 months, "warmth" from the WAW is not what we would like it to be. They are relived, maybe even happy about their new "freedom" and do not feel the need to be so guarded or defensive around us, so they relax.

Don't want to be the voice of doom and gloom, Gunny...just sharing a little of what I have been through recently.


H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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