Forgetting about what Grandma and H want, what do you want? What feels right to you?

What other people want can often be an excuse for not making a decision, and that rarely leads to happiness. If you haven't made a decision yet, how will you decide? What's important to you about your living situation?

--Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015