I feel that if i move to wife's hometown, then i might lose respect for myself.
Will you? What drives that thought?
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Thats because wife has shown 0 interest in making the relationship work.
We all like validation. Self respect comes from within and does not need validation. It is based on how you feel about your actions and how those actions fit within your core values.
Have you defined your core values?
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But then again i feel this urge to make this one final sacrifice on behalf of my relationship.
If sacrifice accurately describes how you view this action think long and carefully about it. Weigh the potential risks against the potential gains.
Do you have expectations here?
How easily are you hurt if expectations are not met?
How does taking this action improve your situation? Work to your strengths. Use them to improve your situation. Let go of your expectations and execute actions that affirm who and what you are at your core.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
