Don't add that last part!! You're right, it's over the top. Since you've already addressed the card, there's not much you can do about that now, but in the future please discuss things like that here on the board first. To a WAW, the words.....beautiful, wife, love, and always. Bet you never thought those were pursuing, did you?
I've seen nearly every LBH over-kill on the birthday or anniversaries. Leave the gift and card with your in-laws to give to her. Anything else before Christmas coming up?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
