Good points of intrest. H's family is very involved with drama. I try to stay out of it but it dosn't allways work. I feel like I'm being watched w/ a microscope here. I heard talk of H's grandma selling the house. I'm an upfront person so I asked her about it. She said that she would if she felt that it couldnt be maintained. She was worried that H wouldn't come keep up the outside maintance. She said she would leave if she couldnt keep it up or if i left she would to b/c she didnt want to live in this big house alone. She hasnt decided and said thatwe should wait and see where life takes us. Word spread back to him and he was upset. He is feeling a TON of pressure from his family. They are allways all over him. I said I was sorry he was stressed and I know he has a lot on his plate. And how could I help him. He said to just keep his Grandma happy because if she sold the house the baby and i would have no place to go. I told him that I try to keep er happy but this is a big change for her and that if she does decide to sell the house the baby and i would be fine as long as he helped out by continueing to pay child susport ond his half of the daycare. We ended to convo. on a good note. He is comming over later this week to do yard work. I feel like if i moved out it might be a good thing 4 me and maybe he would like it or all the drama from his family miht push him over the edge if i left. We should not be blamed. There are 43 other grand kids and 11 adult children that could help with the house aswell.
