How 2 balance detaching & improving communication?

[workinghardguy]

I guess I don't see how this is more stable for anyone...? In essence you are homeless every other night and then your w is homeless the next. Your kids just want to be with their parent and home is wherever you are.

Not to mention the house becomes this place run by no one but occupied by everyone. If te financials are bad then I would tackle that. Decrease expenses, increase income, take in a roommate, bankruptcy, downsize, see a non-profit credit counselor...

I think there are lots of reasons not to do this and previous few to do it. And it's not anger to make your w live with what she created... It's enforcing reality.