Yes, Wii - try to rein in your tendency to be over-enthusiastic. First of all - this is not a date, it's a meeting. Think of it as a pre-date - a substitute for, say, running into someone at a party or the grocery store. This is just an opportunity to meet a new person, someone you may or may NOT have any chemistry with. Don't come on too strong, or you may scare off even the good candidates.
I remember the second guy I met from online. I'd made the mistake of carrying on too much of an online conversation with him before we met. When we met, he behaved as if he was falling in love with me - meanwhile, I didn't even really know him! It turned me off - scared me off, actually. It made him appear desperate. A woman wants to feel like a guy gets to know HER, then falls for HER - if it seems to be happening too fast, then it feels like he's just falling for some fantasy.
So keep it easy, don't try too hard. Consider you will have many such casual meetings before you meet someone where the chemistry is mutual. Relax.
