Hi Ajay

That is my point totally!!

All the advice points at I don't do anything, until they make the first move, they have all the control

It makes sense in a way, because if I do push, and I have misread the situation it will knock my "friendship" backwards, and probably stop all communication.

This is a really trick time for me because of this entirely.

But she knows how I feel about her, and she knows I want to work on us, so for now I don't mention "us" or talk about it

When she is ready, she will tell me, I hope!!!