That's exactly it - we are all pulling for you. Sometimes I come across a bit critical but it is because I've been down that road before and I am trying to warn you of what lies ahead - good and bad.
Don't be afraid to line up more than one date - heck - I had more than one in the same day during my couple of months of Online Dating. It is all about seeing who you are compatible with and want to see again.
Remember that no one likes to be bowled over - it makes them pull back and dating can be about pushing and pulling. Far better that everyone is on equal footing and you just enjoy the moment. You DO have a tendency to do too much. I am guilty of the same. I see it in my daughter as well. But it is the times we've held back a bit that things have gone better.
Keep us posted. I'm glad you are going to leave your turtle at home alone while you get off the couch and meet for a REAL date.