DG:
You are very correct in recognizing that you are someone special, and that it is your H's huge loss to lose you. He does not even know it. Too bad for him. This recognition is good to you to be sure.

This process is like a rollercoaster. What seems right today will seem wrong tomorrow. Decisions made today are questioned tomorrow. What seems set in stone today is not so certain tomorrow. At least this is case in my sitch. Be prepared, and just keep making steps forward each day. The dust will settle as time goes by. At least that is my hope!

Hang in there and be strong.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012