Thanks lc4. That really means a lot to me. All I want is to be a good mother and those boys are my life. I don't think H understands that I have been putting the boys and their feelings before mine. The crazy part is he doesn't even know I have filed yet. I have to go back and see the lawyer on Thurs to finalize the paperwork and then they will serve him. I don't know if he just started thinking about the holidays or what is going on with him.
25 when I told the lawyer I wanted custody she told me in FL neither parent is given custody that you come up with a parenting plan and there is joint parenting responsiblity unless it would be harmful to the children. You come up with a timesharing plan. Timesharing.... It is not a vaca I really dont think he would take them and not bring them back but it scares me.
The reason I told him I didnt' want him is because he kept saying we weren't together and we wouldn't be ever again and making comments that he doesn't want to be around me and the kids at the same time because he doesn't want me to think he wants to get back together. I kept saying I was thinking of the kids not my feelings and I didn't understand why there wasn't some things we could all do together. Then he was talking about when I have a boyfriend or he has a girlfriend. He is so far checked out of our relationship that I don't see him coming back.
I never try to talk to him about us or trying again. He is very confusing to me.
