just to clarify and not that it matters but my son who has special needs is not the S14 that we had together...he is a SS and is 21 with the cognitive level of about an 11-12 yr old at best, but was raised by my H since the age of 2.
The 1200 was an amount we agreed upon together when I first moved out 2 yrs ago. He was not working alot of OT at the time and we had the understanding that 300 a week would be ok but if he worked his OT he would help more..that never happened. and yes he makes well over 60k a year. and yes he will be giving me alot more then that according to my L...and he knows this now..which is what is bringing on all the whining... Its funny how when we were married and my ex would not pay his child support, all the horrible things he said and how appalled he was at that..and now I look at him and think, Really?? your gonna be that guy to??? it always come down to money...
Co parenting session was interesting tonight..cant even get into it because im still proscessing it but my eyes are slowly being opened i think...
Me:48 H:42 M: 18 yrs. S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H D bomb: 9/9/11 OW confirmed 10/30/11 D papers filed 11/01/11 S15 S21(Special needs) S28
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