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It has been four years since she dropped the bomb on me. She has gone from man to man, and has been looking for that special one. I am totally stuck on her and don't understand why. I have two boys that are tired of her bringing guy after guy to the house. what can i do about that?
I go from the perfect Husband, Perfect Father, Best friend, Her security, i love you but am not in love with you, to some peice of trash. I want her back and am wondering how to get by the trust she broke, and the dealing with the different guys. If anyone can help please help...

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Okay, so you know you can't control your W's actions. But what have YOU been doing for your life? Your boys are seeing their dad being ineffective and letting his W run his life. What have YOU been doing for yourself?


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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mr bond, you have such a succinct way with words. Go check out my sitch and impart your concise wisdom on my pile of ...well, sh!!!t.

I love reading your posts Bond.


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed

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