Val, I GAL’ed the Sh!t out of my extended weekend and I am exhausted. I checked your thread skimming it. I will get a deeper read after I clear the mountain of work at the office.
After a first pass: Well done! I agree with others that part of what we learn here is establishing our boundaries and holding firm to them. In a manner that allows us to love ourselves. IMO what you said and did was DB’ing 151 as opposed to 101.
You’ve had more epiphanies, take time to process them. I struggle with giving my STBX the freedom and room she needs to grow. It seems you will be doing that more gracefully than I.
(((Val)))
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
