wife won't admit PA with OM

[MrBond]

What you're feeling is perfectly natural. Let it run it's course. You'll start triggering when you see certain things that remind you of your W or the OM. Keep your mind and body busy. Meditate, yell, scream, punch a bag, run, go to therapy, read a book, whatever. Get it all out. As hard as it is, it will get better. I was exactly in your shoes.

DR has a great way of having you get over this. You can do it. You have to do it.