Update #2: She is continuing her affair(s). She was over the other day, left her phone sitting out and the message from one guy came across while i was sitting there. So, she says she moved out to work on herself, but is just carrying on. No changes. We are civil when we are together, but i'm done with her. I'm making her pay all her own bills (car, insurance, credit cards)and i'm meeting a lawyer in two days. After I will ask her to move out her stuff completely and advise that i contacted the lawyer so i can retain custody of the kids. The DR stuff hasn't affected her at all - but i'm doing well. I've been to the gym regularly, I run, go out with friends and keep the kids and the house together. She see's that at least, but is not interested. I will cut her off from my emotions and get on with my life - if she wakes up - maybe i'll still be available - maybe not. The best part of all this has been the great support of my friends (male and female). Do whats best for you!
