Yes, I've been taking bit of a break from the boards but haven't forgotten about you all and still read everyone's threads from time to time. I was sorry to read about your wife's PA. She is heading down a path of misery and will regret her choices someday.
Anyway, things are going really well over here. Although, I can't say recovering after my H's A has been easy, or anything I thought I'd even consider forgiving, but I've made the decision to open my heart and mind and consider the circumstances. We are still attending our Retrovaille post-sessions and are both committed to the process. We have been spending a lot of time together and my H is incredibly loving and affectionate towards me. In many ways our M and our bond is stronger than it was in the few years prior to the bomb (or in my case, bombs).
And my H has expressed many times that he is very grateful for a second chance because he thinks that deep down he's a good man who got lost by his hurt and anger and did and said some horrible things but in the end, that did not define who he truly was...
I should probably start my own thread though.
Hang in there, Telemark. Your future is going to be amazing.
