A fork in the road - EA admitted by wife

[NYCPeter]

Thanks for the advice -

I'm not ready, but my W is.
She knows I am at home on Fri - so it's not like I can pretend I have something else to do.

Anything I say will be perceived as delaying the process and is likely to upset her - she may then go the litigation route (which quite frankly I would like to avoid).

The $$ figures are high enough to hurt (50% salary for CS and alimony), but not so bad that it would cripple me. She's giving standard overnights etc. Which makes sense and I wouldn't fight for as I don't have family to help me here.