Peter, E gives some good advice. You can't stop the D process and you really need to protect yourself.
The trick in this part of the journey is how to balance what is fair and loving to you against all the hurt, pain, and anger that is coming up from both the D and confirming the PAs
For me.. it was time. I did not stop the D process but I sure did take it at my own speed and in m own way.
Just because your w wants to meet on Friday w/o lawyers does NOT mean you have to agree with her. If you aren't ready or aren't sure how to move forward - it's okay to take some time.
Just make sure you aren't saying "no" to get at her.
I'm so sorry you here Peter. It's a tough phase of the journey.
((( )))
M(f): 43 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
