Alcoholic H wants D part 2.....

[imthemom]

My H does have a job and makes very good money...on top of that he seldom works less then 60 hrs a week and gets paid well in over time..granted that is not all the time but it is 80% of the time.
When I moved out we agreed on 300 a week since my paycheck just covered my rent, and i have lived very conservativly since. I have a son with special needs so cannot work anymore then I do now. I did not want to make it difficult on him, yes I enabled. when I left he had to call and ask what a voided check was, he has never handled anything for himself until the last 2 years. I did everything. He literally handed his check to me every friday and i took care of it all.
and no, I guess he did not prepare or save for this...but he says giving me that money every week has made that hard for him. thats a joke...his checks are at least 5 times that amount, he could have saved quite a bit. And I have made due on that money, maybe twice i have asked for more help and that is it, I have scraped and gone without.
so no...i dont feel sorry for him now...and it makes me frustrated that he is resenting the money he has to give to help support his son when his son is with me 98% of the time.
as far as what you asked 25..you have started me thinking...what is it about him????? I will ponder and get back to you...
my 180s are the obviouse fact that i didnt respond to his whining about money..pat on the back and the camping trip!!
GALing has not been good but am focusing on that this week, going to Divorce support group on Wed. out with friends on Sat night...