MadetoSucceed -- I'm sorry to hear about your story. But you've come to the right place. I'm DBing after a 2nd breakup with my ex wife. We divorced the first time around. She says it's over, I'm still working on it. From time to time I see rays of hope, so THERE IS A CHANCE FOR YOU GUYS. Just keep up the faith in that. You'll find lots of good advice here from very helpful people. Best of luck to you in your situation and keep us informed.