I know quite a few of the people are divorced on this thread, but, is it now OUR MLC we are talking about, or are we still dealing, perhaps obsessing, with our X's??? Being detached has been a very healthy thing for me, but now I am confused as to if I am hanging on to my past through this site??
Any suggestions? Opinions?
This place was never about the MLC'er, but about the LBS. You are still an LBS and have valuable things to contribute IMHO.
Divorce comes as part of this process, sometimes it is unavoidable.
Until you are whole again and even afterwords this is a good place to come. I do not think you should be hanging on to your past but figuring out what to do for the future. That is what part of this is all about. Moving forward and becoming the best people that we can be.
