W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore.

[Snowman]

Mr. Bond, I didn't apologize for everything I apologized for what I honestly feel are my flaws. My W has already heard from me and others what issues she needs to work on but she has chosen to not to address them at this point. I do have my flaws and never claimed I was a perfect person. I have read DB & DR but it has been a while since I have reviewed it. My wife decided on getting a D but really has not taken much action. I do think what my W thinks matters but is doing something that is nice ok as well. My wife has not told me what matters on top of that. All she has done is done things for herself. I'm not trying to be weak by any means but my wife thinks that I was always controlling over her so me recognizing should not be considered weak. I get the point Mr. Bond but the limited communication has not got me more progress than not. Sorry for breaking the rules but saying nothing has not worked either. I will try to run things by the board before I say something.

Valeska19
I understand the perspective on the presents even though my wife complained to me that I never bought her good presents and that she always had to find them for herself like I never bought her something good. I guess I will have to give the presents a 2nd thought but she has not told me she does not want presents or whatever. I guess I was looking at it from just the Christmas perspective but I will think about what is right.

I guess I need to once again bust out DR and re-read the LRT. I do want to be happy and not have this for ever limbo situation consume me. Thanks for the help and keep it coming. Sometimes everyone needs a 2x4 up to the head.