Just journaling...
Had a pretty good weekend. Was off work Friday so the kids and I took a trip to the cemetery where H dad is buried. Its a national cemetery. A beautiful place really. S and D never got to meet H's dad. He passed away in 2004 but had moved to MO years before. He never came to visit us nor us him. H had a weird relationship with his dad. They spoke on the phone often but usually about the weather, sports, etc. Surface stuff...
Rainy and cold Sat. so we didn't do much of anything. S decided he wanted to go to his friend's sleepover party that had been postponed from Thurs. Had to send H a text letting him know.
He was OK with that as he had to work late. He then let me know he was thinking about looking for a new job in Jan.
I asked him if work had gotten that bad.
He is such a hard worker (to the point of neglecting his home life) and he rarely gets the credit for what he does. His boss takes much of that.
I texted him back saying I can imagine how frustrating that must be for him. That I know how hard he works and doesn't get the credit. I said it's a shame his company may have to lose him in order for his bosses lack of work to be exposed.
I didn't get a reply...
Curious to see how this is going to go. In the past when H had looked for a new job he and I would work on it together. Seeing what was available, filling out applications, etc.
Sunday just consisted of getting ready for the work/school week. D had cheer practice. She got her new uniform and was excited. First competition of the year coming up this Sat. Looking forward to that. Love how 13 years later her face still lights up when she hits the mat.


M:45/H43
T:21/M19
D:18
S:11
Bomb:8/10- I'm just not "happy"
H Moves in with mom: 8/10
H Files: 3/11
Now lives with? OW/GF no clue
Nothing finalized...