DG, It is tempting to stir the pot. It is tempting to shine a HUGE spotlight on your H's sh!tty behaviors...
..however you are being the better person. I'm glad you see that the high road is the better road to take. It's harder, but you WILL look back with no regrets.
As for the FB message, there will be no 2x4 by me either. I think there is a point where we say things with expectations of a response.. and sometimes we just say them because they speak the truth.
It's hard to know the difference and it definitely takes time to shift to the 2nd one.
Keep on keeping on.
M(f): 43 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
