You guys make me feel so good about myself, thank you for that.
I meant everything I said to him, and while it hurts that he doesn't have the decency to respond to anything, I know in my heart that I did everything I could. That has to be enough for me.
I received an email from H's SM today. She is the only person from his family who has made an attempt to reach out to me. It was a generic email, small talk asking how the kids are doing, holiday plans, etc. I replied and kept it upbeat, telling her about the new paint/carpet and left it at that. I'm not about to say anything regarding H to her. #1 because I don't feel comfortable and #2 he doesn't like his SM anyway, and I'm adult enough to not stir the pot. (I'll admit it, very tempting though.)
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤