Alcoholic H wants D part 2.....

[imthemom]

Hi everyone..back from our camping trip and had a good time. It was a little difficult for me as that was the first time I had been in our trailer and camp spot since last year and it was sad to remember all the good times we had and sleep in the bed that we slept in together...but i forced those thoughts out of my head and had a good time with the boys and there friends. It rained most of the weekend so we watched movies and ate junk food and just hung out. I was proud that I did that trip alone, one my own and showed the boys that we could do the things we have always done before.

Found out that our house finally sold (H has been living in it free for 2 yrs while it was up for short sale) and H was told he has to be out by the end of the month. this has brought about several conversations about where he will live and how hard it is going to be on him financially now. after all "theres going to be child support and alimoni now".....I have stayed silent and not commented at all when this is said..even when comments were made about how he will have to cut back on the things like storing the trailer and cable etc....In my head I thought "yep, been there, still doing that" but did not comment at all. then there was the "ill probabley end up living in the trailer for awhile to get by"........instead of getting angry at the guilt he is trying to put on my it actually made me giggle...sooo dramatic...He will be fine, Ive been doing it with kids and all he has to worry about is himself.

Going to another Co parenting session tonight...he has not seen S14 at all this week and let me know that he will be working this weekend so he will not have him then either...not sure how this co parenting thing is working out but I will just make sure we are busy this weekend and S14 is occupied.

@Danl...honestly i dont know anything about OW..i am assuming everything that I have said, which I should not do. I dont know were they met or how long that has been going on. Im not even sure if he is still seeing her....it has never been discussed.
sometime I want to ask and then I think whats the point...do I really want to know???
What I dont understand is how he can say our relationship is to hard to work out yet he has it in him, in the middle of all that is going on with us, the house, our son etc...to start a new relationship.