Man, it's so tough to know what to do but I do think there are a few things that might help your situation. I am in a similar situation to you. My WAW is still living with me but in a separate room. I feel that as long as she stays with me and I work on what I can control/improve, mainly myself, that there is hope. What I am suggesting is that if you both can live together I feel like a reconciliation is more probable, but only if you stick to the divorce busting recommendations. I keep hearing that time is an ally and I'm startibng to believe it so maybe time will be your ally. I suggest you take this as an opportunity to self examine, and I mean really self examine, and figure out in all of that what areas in your relationship you should impove on. I was as confused as you were but over time I am starting to see the positive effects of DB'ing. Very small but positive gains. I can't tell you that the time it takes won;t suck beyond all belief but you will either come out of this as a more self aware person and just maybe in a better relationship with your wife. Best of luck!
