So what would you like to see happen in the next two weeks?
I was just thinking this morning that I may not belong on DB. Because I see that the choices are
1. have spouse own up to past behaviors/reconcile or 2. move forward with happy marriage
and that the two are irreconcilable. I want "1" more than I want "2" at this point. In other words, I can't go on in my marriage with things as they are. But of course, I'd prefer to stay married in the long run. But I know it's probably not realistic to say "Well I'd prefer to stay married...IF he changes."
So I guess what I'd like to see happen is very unlikely to happen. He called last night to talk to the kids for the first time since Wednesday. I still do the DB tactics, but at this point, it's more for my own peace of mind than it is to win him back. Is that ok?
Thanks again, I'm reading everyone's stories and learning a lot here.
