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My S and I went out to dinner together and watched the UNC/MSU hoops game on the aircraft carrier. I was in amazement, my S - not so much laugh. He got a little restless. My team won. smile We played a board game after that.

I slept late like a teenager this morning. Just working on laundry and watching football this afternoon. I am going to try to sneak out on the bike for a short ride this afternoon. My S and I are going to a tobyMac concert tonight! He is looking forward to it and so am I. smile

I did get an email this morning with the amount for our phone bill. The amount was considerably more than what I was expecting. Since I pay the bills, I had to go in and look at the reason for the amount. I had to resist the temptation to snoop. I did just enough to find out it was long distance charges on my W's cell phone. I didn't snoop, though. I really don't want to know. I can't control it. I just hate to think what my W is getting herself into., frown


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I did just enough to find out it was long distance charges on my W's cell phone.


Oh boy, would Puppy Dog Tails have a field day with this!


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u are still the greatest GALer there is! You should be one of those guys that rides across the country for charity or something. Bet u could raise a ton of money for something. Do 50 miles or something a day. (insanity, insanity!!!!)

I'd be glad to follow your progress on a GPS. With a bowl of popcorn smile


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I agree with In_Shock, your consistent GAL efforts are inspirational to me as well. Wish I had the stamina to exercise as often as you do, but I'm still doing what I can! Keep it up, man!


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M: 2 yrs
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JB inspires so many of us with his PMA -- GAL and being the best dad he can be for S. (((((((hugs)))))) to my pal JB.

Hey, i'm even praying....or something of the sort....for you. (and all of those in this horrible situation). U know, that's a big step for me. What I need to do is find a church that is accepting.....and ......well.....ROMB told me I'm on the fence. True. But in the spiritual/religious sense, you (and ROMB) have also been very very inspirational and non-judgemental. I appreciate everything. You're an all around genuine man. I've said it before....I have NO IDEA how/why W could/would let you go. Trust me, you're a man among men my friend.


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Hello JB,
Looks like another good day in store for you, enjoy


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Morning, my Brother,
I have such admiration for you resisting the temptation to snoop into the phone bill. You already know enough about what is going on; any more knowledge just becomes pain.

"I'd be glad to follow your progress on a GPS. With a bowl of popcorn."

That made me laugh, IS...

IS is right. You are a genuine man and a man's man. Heck, I'd marry you.


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Originally Posted By: sandi2
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I did just enough to find out it was long distance charges on my W's cell phone.


Oh boy, would Puppy Dog Tails have a field day with this!


sandi, curious - why would that be? She's going to pay for it. I could launch a research project that wouldn't do me any good. She is going to ask why I'm asking for what I am on the phone bill, and I did just enought to answer the question.


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Originally Posted By: In_Shock
u are still the greatest GALer there is! You should be one of those guys that rides across the country for charity or something. Bet u could raise a ton of money for something. Do 50 miles or something a day. (insanity, insanity!!!!)

I'd be glad to follow your progress on a GPS. With a bowl of popcorn smile


That might be fun, but I would miss my S. Hopefully you would be following along with Boy Scout popcorn you bought from my S! smile


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Originally Posted By: westcoastfella
I agree with In_Shock, your consistent GAL efforts are inspirational to me as well. Wish I had the stamina to exercise as often as you do, but I'm still doing what I can! Keep it up, man!


Thanks for stopping in with the encouragement, WCF!


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Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26
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