A fork in the road - EA admitted by wife

[NYCPeter]

We did have a follow-up convo last night (well my W did most of the convo) - she wanted to know if I had thought of plans post D.

I told her that she should put down what she feels is fair re: $$$ and access to the girls and I'll have my L review. She asked what I wanted, and I said to work on the M. W said - it's too late for that, I'm done and have been for a long time.

We started talking a little about the logistics :
She said I could stay at the house when I was looking after the girls and she would stay at her dad's or with a friend. I'm actually ok with this initially as it would allow me to get a much smaller place so I could save $$ for a place in the future and at the same time cause minimal disruption to the girls.

I knew it was coming - but it still hurts....