Just after my post my wife calls, its about nothing really just some arrangements regarding the kids that could have waited, but again another call!!!
As she was speaking she had to go to take another call at work, about a hour later she called back to apologise for ending the call!!!
I'm totally confused with everything still!!!
I feel that she wants back in, not sure to what extent, but she wants something?
I have even asked to maybe do something as friends a while ago, so the offer is there if she wants to take it. And although I'm moving on with things for me, I do feel at times I'm waiting for a call from her to start things moving between us again, mad I know, but something is really changing.
I came on here to purely get things off my chest as I feel like I want to call her and ask her out for a drink or something, but I know thats the last thing I should do!!!!!
Can some of the wise old heads give me their thoughts on this what they think is going on?
I have given this woman everything she wants, the house, space, everything I should do.
It took me a while to totally understood what I was doing wrong, but I finally got it.
Currently I'm 14 weeks sober, my kids love me, I get on great with her, she calls me daily, on numerous times, when we see each other we smile, laugh and flirt to some degree, although it is very minor. I've stopped all talk about the past and don't mention it anymore, only to say its gone and good riddance!!!
I know this woman, I know when she looks at me how she feels, there is no hate or anger in her eyes anymore, we get on great, the connection is growing everyday, I can see it and feel it, even the kids have mentioned how mum and I are friends again!!
It is going so well between us now, and I feel that now is a critical time for us, I don't want to push her away by asking for anything, but I don't want her waiting for me to ask either, so if your not sure what to do, do nothing!!!!
Its very hard though, the waiting, if she was a male friend that I had lost as a friend, and then got back together again with, I would ask them to go for a drink and lets put the past behind us, but this isn't that simple!!!
