Made it through son's dinner. X came without OW. He just stayed away from everyone. He spoke briefly to oldest D who was there with her fiance. Told her he had plans with OW for Thanksgiving. Did not invite D (not that she would have gone). He has made it perfectly clear he has chosen someone else - not only over me, but also over his children. Another piece of evidence that he has lost his f'ng mind. My former BIL contacted me to express his concern about X - didn't understand his choices or see what X sees in OW. I said that I understood but I can't do anything about it. I'm just moving forward. The remaining 4 of us are not messed up - we are not broken. We are redefining our family.
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time
