H moved out the same week he told me it was over. He is living with his sister. I live w/ his grandma. We moved in with her after h's grandfather died to help out. H comes back to care for the yard and sometimes to see the baby. The benifits of staying are many. It's free (thats a big deal), its spacious, i'm not alone(very close to most of his family); but it's hard as well. I dont have alot of independence. I feel like H knows I'm not out w/ anyone else, he can come /go as he wants. It just seems to make it so easy for him. I want to be independent. I want to show him I can do it on my own. Also, I desperatly love my h but i can't move on from him here. Too much of his family here, pictures, memories. I dont want to ruin my chances of getting back together but maybe if I" move on" so to speak he will look at me differently and want to be with us. It seems like he just has the best of both worlds now. No responsibility but no risk of "losing" us eirther. Needing advice
