new to this..

[In_Shock]

You said : "wish I could just be secure enough in myself to believe I was a good wife, and I deserve to be happy. Yes I made mistakes, but I work on myself, I see the things in the r that I could have done better, isnt that part of growing as a person?

I have never been a game player or mysterious, which i thought was a good thing. I am not liking how this is going, I do not want to stay in this limbo place, because I dont think he is in limbo. "


You are definitely a person who deserves to be happy. We have ALL made mistakes -- and WE are here. Our WAS is not. Who is really doing the hard work, hmmmm? Yes yes and yes --- it is a part of growing as a person. Mistakes -- learn -- mistakes -- learn. Without them, how would we ever improve? And that IS what you are doing. ]

I too have never been mysterious or a game player - and I also thought that was a good thing. Funny isn't it?

WAH is likely in limbo = but reality may not have hit him yet and he may give lip service to having moved on or whatever, but not necessarily..... They say a lot of things. We usually have no idea what they are really thinking.