yes, that's what I've thought about him. He's pushing your buttons, acting angry, being rude, etc... because it is hard for him. I have told you--- i still think -- he's not done at all. It's just a matter of you keeping your DBing skills. You are doing SOOOOOOO much better than I am :)]

BTW, I had mentioned casually the 5LL book to W once. She told me she took the quiz online. Funny, she actually paid attention to something like that. She told me her LL is physical touch -- but quickly added that she doesn't want me to touch her!!!! LOL> ok....got it. *i'm very huggy myself, and when I'm needy, watch out. *

So, about you -- smile The whole push and pull is his way of building up the wall, chipping at it, building it back, popping his head out.... etc.... He's very confused. You stay strong and a rock for your D. (I know you have!!!) Like JB said, you are DBing great!!! It's always hard when they act nasty and/or unreasonable, but those are the times it's most important to keep our cool (I'm taking notes on what I just said so I can do it myself...lol!)


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed