I sent a post to Ajay, who shares cats with his WAW. You share dogs. It doesn't take much to confuse me, fellows, and I may have sent a post to him thinking it was you....or visa versa. But, you know the funny (sad funny)thing about this? It's that the same thing I said to him, can be said to you also. I don't mean that these aren't individual cases, but rather....they're very much alike, especially the WAW's. The cats are his WAW's link, and the dogs are your WAW's link. They use the pets as their built-in excuse to contact.

Anyway, as I was telling Ajay, or maybe it was you..... crazy be prepared to see her show up any time and try to initiate sex. She could be crying or laughing, whatever she thinks will do the trick. Oh heck, why don't I just copy what I told him!

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I promise that she will increase the pursuing. Like I said, just be prepared when she throws herself at you. You will have to pretend you are being strong and level headed when that happens. You don't want to bruise her ego too much. So, be thinking what you'll say. I just have a gut feeling it won't be long now.

This is where guys mess up so many times. But since I've warned you......that's not gonna happen with you, right? When she's coming on to you .....crying.....laughing.....teasing.....whatever, you can politely remove her arms (or whatever body parts she has wrapped around you) and tell her that you think it's best not to carry things any farther.

You see, she needs to really work at getting you back (instead of the other way around) or she'll never stay. She has to keep on working to convince you she's serious and really, REALLY wants to be M to you. Believe me, if she can have you in one little "attempt".....then that'll be waaaaay too easy and she'll quickly (like 24 hrs quickly) lose her attraction for you, again. Just like in high school sweetie, you've got to play hard to get!

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!