Sl,
It's nice to meet a fellow INFJ. I don't have kids, so can't related to family leadership from that perspective, but understand the struggles an strengths of being an INFJ in a M. I'll post when I have something to offer.

CL


CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching