My H and I just had a convo about forgiveness... he keeps saying he has such anger and resentment over things in our past. In fact, he brings up things that happened over 4 years ago, despite my having apologized, him telling me he forgave me, etc. I told him I don't think he has really forgiven me, and for the first time he agreed.
He even said if he had truly forgiven me, he wouldn't keep bringing it up.
It took me a long time and a lot of prayer to forgive my H for the things he has done to me, but it is such a weight off of my soul to have done so. I pray everyday for God to help him unload this burden. I'll add you to that prayer list.