Thanks, ROMB. Truly, the support I receive here is so very appreciated. While I'm very grateful for my family members and friends who have supported me through this journey, it's so comforting to have friends on this board who know exactly what I'm going through and how tough it can be.
I've done so much soul searching this weekend about how I handled the encounter in the wrong way. Even if I didn't accuse him of still being with her or gripe at him about his affair, I was still taking it out on him. True forgiveness isn't about forgetting; no one whose suffered through infidelity will ever forget it (sure wish we could!). Rather, it's about wiping the slate clean and never holding that over their head or bringing it up again. It's a toxic topic and therefore needs to be left in the past.
H spent another night at the other house, but I feel him softening and hope he will return home soon. Again, many thanks for the support. It does help!
