I don't plan to text her again and I will just wait until she does. I've noticed that she hasn't been posting mushy things with her new boyfriend so much in the last week. Perhaps the new is starting to wear off. I'm actually starting to feel like I have some control over the situation and that I will be ok even if she never comes back. I think that spending time with our dogs really got her to thinking yesterday. Sandi2, I will not have sex with her until I'm sure we are on a path to dating again. Thanks for the heads up. Without me realizing it (until reading your post), this happened to me before. Right before she told me we couldn't work on it anymore (she'd been hinting at it already) we went on a rafting trip. She said later she went on the trip to see if anything was still there between us. She initiated sex that night and of course I obliged. It was the first time we'd had sex in months. A few days later she told me that she didn't feel anything and that we were over. I'll not fall into that trap again! I really sense that she left yesterday wanting more and I guess that's the feeling I need her to have. I saw where her mom was posting on her FB wall that she wishes my ex could be with our dogs again. Her mom is going to be a big impediment to getting back together b/c I feel she will advise against it. I did get the sense that my ex was really happy spending a few minutes with me. The look in her eyes just told me that she missed being with me. She was really interested in changes I've made to our house and what my future plans with the house were. Also, when she left walked to her car and then turned around and walked back and said that we should quit being silly and she came and gave me a hug.
Another thing she did that I thought was strange....I mentioned that I'd be going to church in a few weeks for my nephew's baptism. She said that she guessed she'd have to miss that. I just moved the conversation along at the time and didn't say she could come or anything like that. Just changed the subject kind of. Anyway, I don't think it's a good idea for her to come anyway if we aren't dating or a "family". She can just know she's missing it.
Lol, while I'm writing this she's texted me again this morning saying it was ok I fell asleep while texting with her last night. I think I'll give it a while before I respond, or should I respond at all?
YOU GUYS ARE THE GREATEST! THANKS SO MUCH FOR THE ADVICE EVERYONE!
