Edgarb, just getting caught up on your sitch- you're making some great progress on YOU, you should feel really good about that. Your ex making contact with you that way could mean lots of things... I know its difficult not to obsess about the positives. Just try to remember the things you are doing now are to make you a better person, and if by becoming a better person you salvage your relationship, bonus! Either way, you're going to be ok.