I liked and identified with this comment and have experienced it first-hand:
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Sometimes I think God puts people in your path, you let them pass by and He's up there saying "Hey, what more do you want from me?!" So I acted on an opportunity.
I just went through the same realization with my GF, who is now my fiancee. We had dated for about a year - she has been a tremendous influence in my life since I filed for D. I was a little 'scared' of getting engaged I think even though deep down I knew I wanted to spend my life with her and that she would be a wonderful person to have in my kids' lives permanently. I finally decided to propose to her based upon the fact that I knew that God had put her in front of me, and that God wants us to be in a relationship where love shines through as a sign of His prsence. So, I worked through some of my fears based upon this and have NO regrets. It is a situation where I really feel like I was touched to take action (she and I hit kind of a cross road where I was going to lose her most likely if we didn't move forward).
Its on a different level than the scenario being discussed here, but defer to God and what He would want for you and you will find the way forward.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
