uh, if that fool is my husband, the answer is yes.
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
What are some GAL activities and 180s you are doing or are planning to do? That's a good start...
I confess, this is a challenge for me. I don't really know what to work on. How do I know what to change if I like myself the way I am?
Kaffe Diem - question for you: if you no longer think you can reconcile your marriage, what is it that keeps you coming back to this site? I think that's the biggest thing I meant by How is it Supposed to work? Was I supposed to come here out of a desire to save my marriage, and then, in the name of saving my marriage, learn to do all the things that will allow me to lead a happy life after my marriage fails anyway? That seems to be the new goal for most of the people I read on the boards.
M: 43 H: 44 M: 12.5 if the 5.5 year separation counts Bomb (I dropped it): Dec '07 H said finit: Jun '10 I moved on: May '13
