Thanks Cold. I appreciate the support. Keep hanging in there re your situation. It is hard to believe that this could go on forever but apparently it can.

A lady that I work with who went through a similar situation feels that this all part of their strategy. In situations like ours, they want to frustrate us to the point that we file for the divorce and then we look like the cold hearted ones. Not sure if this is true or not, hard to know what is going on in my wife's head these days. She can't be happy with the way things are. I think she liked it better when I was difficult to live with and that justified her behaviour.

We just have to hang in there and stick with the plan. While they are still at home we do have a chance. It is tough to deal with on a day to day basis, but provides more hope than if they moved out.

Good luck with your situation.