...what other things can I do to help on the long road of restoring the r.
The one thing I think you have to resign yourself to in this struggle is acceptance that TIME, TIME and more TIME is what is going to be needed for you to see if your M has a chance.
As much as we want things resolved NOW, we do not have control over our S's timeline. Heck, they don't even have that control. It is something that will evolve and you just have to accept that.
So work on yourself. Make those meaningful 180's a permanent part of the new you and hang on.
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
