Don't know what to say here other than to share a recent experience with me and my W when she went away on her 4 day spa weekend.
In this event, W didn't call to speak with me or the kids during the entire length of her stay. This was very unusual but I resisted the temptation to reach out to her and I think that was a good thing in retrospect. Of course I am fairly sure she was with the OM of which there is nothing I can do about that! I also know that she was feeling extremely stressed while she was away (she told me this after her return) thinking about our sitch and what we were going to do next..
So, what does this mean for your H? Who knows? But if you have been good about not initiating contact and keeping yourself busy with GAL activities then I would say that this plays to your advantage. You are not pursuing or pressuring and that is good DB discipline. Try to keep this focus and I'm sure your H will surface soon enough.
Hang in there Brooklyn!
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
