Question- when the WAS asks me the LBS questions about who I go out with and what I do and where do I go- do I answer honestly? I don't want to lie but also feel he really has NO right to ask. why not say both, and CALMLY? And change the topic...something like
"H, it's no big state secret where I went, but I think it's a little ironic that you feel entitled to know what I do in my free time. Clearly that's not a two way street BUT I appreciate your interest and yes, I did have a good time with my friends...so what were you saying about the job/day/kids.... blah blah blah now?"
I haven't a clue what he does in his free time as he doesn't live with us and we rarely talk. In the past I have answered vaguely and then he gets mad and storms off because "you act like its a secret". Whatever. Thanks.
how's the work on DETACHMENT going? And what are YOUR GAL?
and your 180s?
Let's talk about what you DO control, which is YOU.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016