there IS a chance of a recon, imo. But I think that chance is enhanced, not lessened, by you filing.
I rarely say that but it so happens that when the kids actually NEED to have support and the reality, not punishment or teaching a lesson, etc but just
REALITY forces the LBSer to file, then REALITY forces the WAS to stare at their choices.
The more separate from the legal stuff the LBSer can remain - the better.
So even though it seems dark right now, I believe the chance that exists for a recon,
is NOT decreased by you filing. I truly believe no one gets divorced b/c an LBSer filed that was not going to divorce anyhow.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
